"Don't judge"
How many times have i heard this? or other variations like that idiom, don't judge a book by its cover.
IT'S A HUMAN REACTION, and there's nearly no way to stop it. Just accept the hard truth. No matter how many times you say this to someone, it's definite that you will get judged one way or another.
- For whatever reason you told them not to judge
- And for saying don't judge!
Why bother saying it, when you'll be scrutinized more closely now. You know what I mean?
Also, I'd rather hear what that person's view is. Saying "don't judge" makes these people not tell you whatever they're thinking, and they'll not give you a a truthful opinion next time!
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